10 Unhappy Husband Complaints

Got an unhappy husband? What is he saying? Here are the top 10 most common unhappy husband complaints.

1. She Doesn’t Appreciate Me Enough

It doesn’t matter if you work in an office, take care of a household, or a combination of the two, more than likely you are both frustrated dealing with responsibility roles. And sometimes it sometimes can be easy to pile on more the second your partner walks through the door is probably not the best way to get him to hear or help you out. You will listen to each other better when you’ve settled down and can focus on what needs to be taken care of.

2. Our Date Nights Are No Longer A Thing

The good news is if you both feel like you need more face time, you’re already in the same boat, which means it will be easier to find a way. Try not to keep a mental note of who made plans the last date night and put it on both of you to try and plan something. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter who made plans, the good thing is you bonded and appreciated your time together.

3. Our Conversations Are A Little To Serious

Having conversations about your children is essential, but it can get tiresome after a while. When the kids go to bed or when they’re out with friends, try to make an effort to talk about more jovial topics, like the latest celebrity Instagram, as well as more serious issues to keep you connected and passionate as a couple.

4. She’s Not Who I Thought She Was

If you feel like you had to ‘trick’ your husband to marry you, you may want to consider what’s underneath the surface that makes you feel that way. You may both have to make a choice to seek counseling if it is getting in the way of the relationship

5. Her Decision Making Is A Little One-Sided

If you’re frustrated about how much your husband helps out taking care of the household, make sure you try and see his point of view. What you see as being lazy, he may think you have it under control and don’t want to get in the way as a sign of respect and trust. But, if you have a hard time letting go of doing everything, what would happen if you started to appoint duties?

6. Our Romance Is Gone

Relationships will constantly change and grow, and occasionally the qualities that attracted you to your husband are the ones that drive you nuts. It could be that you’re just too stressed with the day-to-day monotony to have the romance that you used to. The secret is to come to an understanding of what small actions now do it for you. Maybe taking a break and going away for a long weekend may ignite that lost spark.

7. It Seems Like We Are No Longer Equals

If you feel like you are losing touch with each other’s beliefs make a collaborative effort to stay on the same page much as you can. Try and see what he can do to relate with you spiritually and otherwise, and maybe consider asking your religious leader, who has experience in these situations.

8. We Do Not Have Sex Anymore

Both of you deserve a similar say in your marriage, so it shouldn’t be up to either of you to decide your sexual wellbeing as a couple. That’s somewhat because, no sex is the symptom—not the problem. If you get into a pattern or if there is just a lack of time, it’s worth considering couples counseling.

9. I Feel Alone

Relationships will constantly change and grow, and occasionally the qualities that attracted you to your husband are the ones that drive you nuts. It could be that you’re just too stressed with the day-to-day monotony to have the romance that you used to. The secret is to come to an understanding of what small actions now do it for you. Maybe taking a break and going away for a long weekend may ignite that lost spark.

10. My Work Life Is Off

Loving your career is great, but like most everything, it’s all a question of harmony. You may not be able to give up working from home or talking with your boss through text or email, but you can set some guidelines that recognize the difference between personal and professional time. That might mean doing after-hours responsibilities every other day or turning of email alerts after a certain hour.

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